Are you a master of comedy? Or do you struggle with even the most basic knock-knock jokes? If the latter sounds more like you, here’s how to be the funniest person in your social circle. Besides being fun, joking can be a key social skill, especially when it comes to making new friends. Even though a lot of people consider themselves social, striking up friendships can be tricky.
Even more, making new friends can be as hard as finding romantic love. To pick a new pal who we connect with and to keep in touch is a hard task. But that’s no reason to resign ourselves to a lifetime of solitude. Here’s what you can do to get yourself some new pals and keep your old ones happy and close to your heart:
- Follow your interests: You’re more likely to find people you click with when you participate in activities you like.
- Foster intimacy: Talk about something more profound than the yucky weather!
- Be persistent: Friends also need to be pursued, just like you would do with a crush.
- Smile: An oldie but goodie. Smiling makes you feel closer to others, and vice-versa!
With a happy smile and these tips to lighten up conversations, you’ll feel happier and more confident. Plus, others will perceive you as friendly and open to talking. It’s a win-win!